A rather bizarre visit to the hospital. Our police
registration had not run out. It was for 6 months, but the university decided
we should undergo the formal procedure to get re-registered early. So Ali, the
kids and I all went to the hospital where we had to endure being marched in
front of 6 different doctors and nurses and repeat the same thing. “No we’ve
had no problem with X”. X being ears, nose, throat, brain, lungs, hands (only
for blokes?!?), eye sight. This took 3 hours and as you can imagine the
children were bored. Problem was that we didn’t see everyone we had to and so
had to go back to find the remaining examiners. Blood was taken, blood pressure
assessed and the final summation from the head doctor. Another 2.5 hours
wasted, just so we could get the stamps and signatures required. Ali also had
to pay for her “treatment”. Thankfully we had a translator, although needed a female one when Ali went to see the nurse. Just had to keep repeating "no we've had no problems with X". What we
couldn’t figure out was why any of this was actually necessary. After all, we
could have flown out of the country and returned to get a new police
registration certificate. How does that equate to the need for a full medical
work up? Anyway, not looking forward to having to do this again as part of the
Visa renewal in December.
With the imminent departure of Joe and Penny back to the States
and repeated reminders from Matthias to Joe, we sat down to watch Star Wars,
which was just for the boys. A great excuse to over dose on chocolate and get
excited by a New Hope. The downside was that Joe and Penny did leave a few days
later. Matthias in particular was upset, but I too was sad to see them head
home. In part because I will miss his enigmatic presence, as well as his
confidence when things seemed to hit the wall. On the upside, we replenished
our food stocks and our kitchen utensils as they had to limit the number of
bags to take on the plane. Hopefully not too long to wait before we can go see
them in New York.
Been chatting with Kazakh undergrad ladies about them
sacrificing their career for their men. A few of us were in Gloria Jean’s Coffee,
drinking whatever they actually had available from the menu and one of the
lasses said she had been shot at in America, which detached part of her finger
and re-sown. Sadly one of her companions in the party being shot at was hit and
killed. Somehow this didn’t put her off going back to America. Anyway, as the
conversation unfolded they were commenting on how sad it was to see close girl friends
give up their entire career just to be a stay at home wife. I obviously have no
objection to Ali staying at home and would be quite happy if she wanted the
situation reversed. However, it was the fact that this is a very male dominated
society, which I had not really come across before. There are a lot more women
than men, though the higher up jobs tend to be populated with men, whilst the women
stay at home raising children. The theory is that the men have a lot more women
to choose from and if dissatisfied with their current wife, can leave them to
find a new one. This in turn means that the current wife will do more to keep
the husband happy, including sacrificing their careers, even if they were
higher up the echelon than their husbands.
Naturally, we were reflecting upon the stereotypical 1950s
house wives and what it took to bring some form of equality in society or even
in the relationship. Withholding sex. But with the gender imbalance I guess
this would force men to find a wife that would not withhold sex and so the
problem continues. There is perhaps little impetus in the current climate to
address the issue, though Kazakhstan whilst being intrinsically Muslim appears
not to be heading towards a Sharia law. In fact it is difficult to know where
the country might head in terms of religious views. I’ve mentioned before some
of the problems if a person is not Muslim or Russian Orthodox and that freedom
of religion is not the same as in the West. Despite there being allowances to
practise different religions, when they affect an individual citizen then the state
steps in and hammer home very secular trials. Try and match that with the
presence of superstition even among the top educated Kazakhs, it is a strange
mixture.
Some say that Kazakhstan’s society is emerging out of a similar
scene in 1950s US, but the geopolitical nature combined with advanced
technology pervading every part of their society will make for a very different
outcome. There are many that want to see greater change and greater reformation
here, but to what end. Introduce any modicum of change in one aspect of the
machine will cause another part of the machine to change and in ways that will
not always be beneficial. There’s a lot to do, but it will take time. One could
adapt a quote from The Patriot “I would not swap one dictator concerned with the needs of the many for many dictators concerned about the needs of a few”. There are many ways in which one could derive meaning from this, but never let it be said that a dictator, especially a benevolent dictator, is a negative thing! In the UK I’ve always wanted
to believe that there was stability, security and trust in the system that
represented the people, so that no-one could take advantage and yet there are
stories of what the UK government has done over many centuries and sometimes still does. Perhaps it is on a much
reduced scale compared with developing countries and perhaps there are greater standards
of protecting the rights of the individual. Though I’m sure this will be disputed
by Julian Assange, Ian Tomlinson or Christopher Tappin, etc.
Some struggles still persist. Been waiting for a month now
to get some shipping allowance and home schooling budget repaid. Apparently
purchasing the bike through the internet means that I never owned the bike
before shipping and cannot use the shipping allowance as it is not a personal
item. I tried to reason with them given that I or a friend could have purchased
the bike and sent it to Kazakhstan from a private address, without ever having unwrapped it, and the Finance team
would be none the wiser. Alas all communication went cold after that. Had to
meet HR to discuss the issue of home schooling budget. We had purchased a lot
of books according to one contract, but HR and Finance insist that they got the
age range wrong in that contract. So we discussed what it should be and then
Finance turn round and say we can only claim according to the new wording. We
also discussed what could be procured through this budget and it turns out that
the Kazakhstani’s policy for education is to have one approved curriculum
disseminated to all schools. All text books are derived from a single list
only. And they want us to do the same. I tried to reason with them, reminded
them that we are here to build a better, more Western style university, not to
have our children educated according to the Kazakh system. The funny moment
came when I said that we had purchased the collected works of William
Shakespeare, which they deemed was fiction and not educational. Naturally I
was irritated by the whole affair and reminded them that at the time of
purchase the old contract was effective. All communication went cold after that
too.
Went for a ride with Sean after replacement tyres finally
turned up. 80 km onto the Steppe and back again, not too problematic. No punctures.
Turns out it was partly my fault. I had read on the website for Continental
tyres that the maximum inflation pressure was 175 psi. So I put 150 psi in and
went for the ride, which blew a tyre somewhere along the way and another tyre
on standing back at the apartment. Turns out that the operating pressure should
be around 115 psi, which I used for the 80 km trek. So all seems fine with the
tyres and the ride. Keeping up with Sean quite well until I ran out of water
and hit the wall. Only when I got back to the apartment the usual numbness that
sets in after 20-30 km in the lower regions of the male body didn’t instantly
return. After a few days still no feeling. Ali has forbidden any cycling until
I get a better saddle.