Days 101 to 110

Switching from daily to block-of-days writing is much harder than I thought. Perhaps it is because of my tired brain trying to recollect what has been happening over the last 10 days (or so). Anyway, practise makes perfect – or leads to less mistakes – pick your adage.

Work continues with a mixture of potential hope and a modicum of frustration. I was asked to conduct a health and safety evaluation of a room to be used for experimental purposes and bearing in mind I have no formal training, there was no qualified electrician or fire officer either, I tried to ensure I could not be held liable. This government announcement of holidays at the end of the week and overlapping with the weekend is really confusing. This is also exam time and the schedule was drawn up months in advance. So there are colleagues who have to work during the holiday and are still expected to turn up for work on Sunday. Had a little tête-à-tête with a senior manager after it was announced that private taxis were banned from entering campus and the problems that would ensue, particularly for families. But it turned out they only meant gypsy cabs, though it didn’t stop some staff from experiencing problems trying to get on campus in uni hired taxis. In trying to sort out the frustrations, decided I should try and get on the Faculty Senate. A little more work, a lot more headaches I’m sure, but hopefully exposed to better communication.

I had a good score in a recent funding application, hopefully it will get funded. The other funding application was not submitted by the research office, much to my disappointment. It took several emails to finally get some answers. They could have avoided the rhetoric had the just admitted the problem in the first email rather than gloss over it. Don’t think Kazakhstani custom allows for admitting you were wrong, but try and point the blame elsewhere. So I ruffled a few feathers, but managed to smooth things over with the individual involved. The others need to learn how to communicate with me. I can get feisty and highlight their shortcomings; not a great attribute I grant you, but I am exhausted by the admittedly not-that-frequent incompetent actions of those in managerial roles.

This renting out the home remotely is not good for my anxiety levels. We have a great managing agent in place who is keeping on top of things. But they reported that damp patches are appearing on the chimney breast in the main bedroom. I had sealed and painted the chimney after it was skimmed and damp patches are now showing. Hopefully it is nothing more than the chimney needs a lot of time to dry out and I should have used a better sealant. And by trying to get on these problems straight away, hoping that the tenants feel happy they are being looked after.

Some good news. I had an MRI scan and they can confirm I have a brain! There’s nothing wrong with it either, so the cluster headaches I’m getting appear to have no root cause inside the skull. We’ve all been feeling a little under the weather. Not sure if it is a bug going round, but decided I would try the activated carbon remedy, which they use a lot in the former Soviet states. It does work too. Well worth getting a supply on standby for food poisoning, a lot of stomach complaints, radionuclear contaminated food, etc. Just got to get over the fear of eating a black pill.

I purchase a new pair of trainers and have to say... what a waste of money. I recently traded up my Nike Dart 9s (inexpensive) for a pair of Adidas Supernova Glide Boost (expensive). There’s almost no real difference in weight, thickness of padding. The Adidas are better fitting, supposedly with more stability control and bouncy material, but actually caused more painful issues during the run than the Nikes. It could be that I need time to get used to them, but I came across this report – alas after I made the purchase – which is well worth the read if you want to buy running shoes for running: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/moslive/article-1170253/The-painful-truth-trainers-Are-expensive-running-shoes-waste-money.html. Of course, it could be that the Nike Dart’s were an excellent pair of running shoes anyway. So I am still waiting for my bike to turn up. I now have the complete set of clothing and all the accessories were delivered late yesterday, so I am now prancing about in my fluoro gear and cycling shorts, but without a bike. I get some strange looks I can tell you. Very impressed with Parcel Force, which I had mentioned before. They appear to get through Kazakhstani customs quicker than any other foreign company. So whilst I am waiting, I am trying to build my fitness levels again by running and perhaps stupidly decided that training for running the marathon distance is a good idea – hence needing an expensive pair of running shoes, because there’s no way I am going to do all the hard work and need “The new BOOST™ foam with its unique energy capsules features a magical combination of functional benefits: Unlike any other foam it gives a soft and springy cushioning and feels ‘alive’. It energizes your running stride for more efficiency independent from the temperature and ensures maximum comfort.” What a fool I am. My hat is off to Ali who is diligently keeping up with her training regime for couch to 5k and she ran 25 minutes without stopping; please bear in mind she has never run for that long continuously.  

The weather last week was quite naff. It started snowing again and temperatures dropped into the negative centigrade region. Then it was blowing hurricane force winds, which had ripped apart aluminium sheet fencing round the building site next door. Very concerning that you could get sliced and diced. But we had braved the elements and Ali and Rebekah have been very cultured and went to ballet the other day to see Swan Lake. Nearly said Swan Walk, but only the Horshamites would get that and would not have been nearly as graceful either. They had a good time at the Astana Opera House and we thank Wynter and Jennifer for giving up their tickets. We’re now faced with the other 14 things to do on the top attractions of Astana list, which doesn’t make for great reading outside the top 3. Still, we are here so we are going to make the best of it.

Had a chance to lead worship last Sunday. Doesn’t help that my voice is low and therefore unsure beforehand whether anyone singing in the audible range are comfortable or straining. Still, the expat get together has become important to us. We’re faced with a lot of changes over the coming months with a number of people moving from Astana or leaving the area. But this is the group we feel we get the most out of for us and for the children. Definitely missing Kings fellowship, although WhatsApp lifegroup keeps us in touch.

Experienced our first water shortage. The taps went off late one day and didn’t resume for 24 hours. No notice and poor communication. We were told it was city wide and would only be a few hours. Then it was going to be all day. Turns out it was only our block, with no explanation as to why we were told otherwise. This is Kazakhstan.

Ray

Day 100

So after months of going out in the cold, we finally left our winter coats behind. Yet Astana seems to have skipped the spring and moved straight on to summer today as the children and I were positively stifling in our lighter jackets while out for the day today. The locals obviously really feel the cold and are still going about well wrapped up - that's why all their places indoors are so incredibly warm. On a very crowded (and very warm) bus today Kyria sat on the lap of a Kazakh lady (they either give up seats for children or invite them to sit on their laps!). This lady was obviously concerned that Kyria's thin cardigan was completely inadequate to protect her from the elements... I showed her the coat I was having to carry and tried to explain that it was simply too hot.  I'm sure they think we don't dress our children properly at all. Fortunately the American friends we were with had shorts and T-shirts so it's not just us who were warm. I know that once the real heat of summer hits I'll be longing for that -30 degrees C again. As Ray says... I'm never satisfied about the weather! Personally I think I'd be perfectly happy in a steady 15-20 degrees... Where should we live next?

Ali

Experienced a great get together of staff and faculty for a singing contest called Two Stars, where a member of staff and a student form a duo to sing 1 song in English and another in Kazakh. Happy to report that my office colleague won. Think the children really enjoyed it too. Matthias and Kyria went with Joe for the announcements so they got a moment in the limelight.

The student academic misconduct highlighted some interesting aspects of rules and whether to follow them. Cheating by bringing in notes into an exam is a serious offence. The rules are strict and yet it was the view of the managers that the punishment for the student should not directly or indirectly lead to the expelling of the student. It was their first crime and therefore the student received a lesser punishment and a warning. I am still trying to gauge whether this is a good thing or not. The student showed no remorse other than they got caught. The student is done a disservice as they knew full well it was wrong to cheat. Other students are also done a disservice as this sends the wrong message. Plus the two strikes and you're (possibly) out for serious offences does not happen in the real world, so this does not help students learn for the future.

Anyway, chocolate helped ease the frustrations. That is until I got an email from HR, which stated that new Kazakhstani holidays have been announced and so our working week has been altered. I now am required to work from the 4-11 May, in exchange for getting 1-3 and 7-10 May off. It's not a hassle, but it is just another reminder of T.I.K. (this is Kazakhstan). If we don't like it, then quit. Trouble is I've heard that some people are going to, not as a result of this holiday rearrangement, but just the combination of events since Christmas without any sign of improvement. However, 100 days in and I am feeling a little more relaxed about the situation. It could all change within an instant. Someone quipped that if the President passes away and the number 2 guy takes over then pack your bags and get on a flight home. But if the number 3 guy gets the top spot then just get on a flight home.

Happy Easter everyone.

Ray

 

ps. San Diego, Ali?

Day 99

Our new view

Almost there. Just one more day and I'm done. The weekend that is and not the 100th post.

Was in a lot of back-to-back meetings today. Was able to confront my Head of Discipline on a few issues. Also raised a whole load more with the Provost. I think I kept my tongue under diplomatic control, so I probably keep my job a little longer. Plus I got an evaluation score back today via the US; the university uses Oak Ridge Associated Universities to evaluate all internal proposals and I scored above the funding threshold. So I should be in line to get my first project up and running here. Just waiting on the second result to come through and a few others I've been involved with.

We received the report from the investigation of the piece of marble nearly hitting our kids. It turns out that it was not from an external tile broken away, but from inside the building on the 9th floor and was thrown by person(s) unknown. It also transpires that the supervisor dealing with building/construction work was not present either. So the university has taken a very strong stance against the construction company and demanded that they identify those responsible in order to hold them to account. We keep reminding ourselves that thankfully this careless discarding of masonry out of the 9th floor did not end up with anything serious happening.

No leaf unpolished

Just got to survive to the end of a student's academic misconduct hearing tomorrow and I'm free to relax over the Easter weekend. Must plan a treasure hunt for the kids. And hope the cleaning staff don't remove any items. They are thorough.
 

Ray

Day 98

To apply for head of school position or not? Difficult question to answer. I am not a chemical engineer, so if I were to get it would that expose the school to difficulties. However, with the current set-up, things are not going great either. Lack of direct experience in head of school role, but have been through most academic procedures. At least for all other parts of the role, I can do without too many difficulties. So I guess it comes down to whether the Dean would take me seriously. And also whether I would have power to make changes or simply have to toe the line.

We moved! I think Ali is completely fed up with moving now. 3 times this year. At least this is a bigger place, better utilisation of the space. They had the radiators not working properly, so were on full blast for many months without anyone checking. Had to have the tiles in the en suite bathroom removed as they were hanging off the wall. But atleast they were able to sort things fairly quickly. And checking out of the other apartment was very straight forward and not as daunting as I could have imagined it.

Well, we have flights confirmed for Ali and the children to go back to the UK at the end of June and I will head along a couple of weeks after. It is still a strange set-up that I have a limited amount of time for holidays and expected to stay put in Astana with very little to do during the Summer before and after my holidays are used. I cannot even get away to do some research, which is rather depressing. Still Summer should be fun albeit busy driving around the country (if I remember how) trying to catch up with everyone.

I wonder if culture shock with the UK will hit us. Probably not this Summer. Very much looking forward to a few curries and roast dinners; the Phillips family sent through some needed supplies. I am not sure what I am more excited to see. The bar of Toblerone or the Paxo Stuffing! Thank you all.

Very excited also to see some Easter-y things appear in some shops. It is all within a Russian Orthodox setting, but its presence is appreciated. Decorating eggs must be a big thing in the USA as I have had several American colleagues all talk about having egg paint available for the children. I'm sure that a lot of them are not interested in the origins of Easter though. I could be and hope I am wrong.

Ray

Day 97

And so we are ready to move again... Perhaps we should open a removal company one day or a packing/ unpacking service! At least it gives us a chance to have yet another clear out... It's amazing what junk we can accumulate in just a few weeks. 

In school we finished reading The Snow Queen, prompted to see how it compared to the movie 'Frozen'. And then spent a while decorating some eggs. My egg-blowing attempt was a disaster so ended up hard boiling them after all and since half the box was already cracked there weren't a lot left! A second attempt required after the move I think. 

Ali

Partially moved into a new apartment. Lots more room, but what a pain trying to clear everything after 4 weeks on the 4th floor. Kids have been great moving a few items at a time and enjoying the potential of fun and well mannered frolicks on the 10th floor.

Somewhat knackered at present. Whole family went down to Block 21 and I went on to the gym. Ran for an hour, which I have not done for a fair few decades. My legs are not happy with me.

Ray

Day 96

A quieter day, but perhaps that was due to the children all feeling under the weather. We are moving again! Going from the 4th floor to the 10th floor. Alas we couldn't get to the top floor, so we still have an unknown living above us. But for a three bedroom apartment, I'm pretty sure there's only a single Kazakhstani guy up there. Will be interesting to hear how much noise comes through now that there will be someone living above us. At least we don't have to move far and so the packing should be a bit easier.

The weather is slowly warming up, but not sure how long it will last. Finally got the last bits of my conference trip paperwork signed and submitted. I keep finding new and interesting aspects of my work. In going to South Korea, there is a daily limit on how much the university will allowed to be covered for a hotel and daily living allowance. They've worked everything out to the tiniest minutiae for when I will be in Kazakhstani airspace and receive a lesser allowance. I can just about understand why they do it like this in order to limit any possible embezzlement, but in my mind it really only serves to show a lack of trust in the expatriate academic staff and an inability to hold them accountable should any individual abuse their position. Someone even sent through a request for thoughts as to why it is difficult to conduct research at NU. The list I sent back was 3 pages long. I seriously doubt that anyone will take it seriously enough to do anything about it, which is somewhat disheartening. But as I said before, we're allocated a slot and should we accept that slot, then we stay in that slot until contract end. Trying to enjoy work and continue progressing research takes a lot of creativity. I'm not sure how much I can endure. Plus I still haven't heard about my research trip abroad, which looks to be impossible now for this year.

Ali is considering developing her own curricula for Rebakah and Matthias or whether it is best to just buy someone else's. I think I could go for something like that and put in some really fun lessons. Two hours of sci-fi movies, an hour of building Lego with Matthias, guitar music lessons with the girls, followed by three hours of cooking and a bike ride for sports.

Ray

Day 95

These weekends are becoming hard work. Rebekah and Kyria were up during the night for nocturnal visitations. Then again by Kyria in the morning just before 7am. Got up for negotiations with Matthias over the Wii, breakfast and getting dressed. Then out for morning church and an impromptu leading of the English youth group. Then back to base for food, further negotiations with Matthias, the Wii and food. Then out for the afternoon session, co-leading the worship session, Kyria going steadily green and then promptly was sick in the hotel hallway whilst we were dashing for a taxi. Get the kids read and Kyria settled. A little Harry Potter though I was dashing onto the computer trying to find out what was happening in the Paris-Roubaix cycle race. More food. Throw the kids into bed and then finish off Skyfall (ran out of energy last night) then having Rebekah creep up on us at the one not nice moment in the film. Then ensuring everything is ready for tomorrow. And that feels like an average day, heading into Monday totally drained. I wonder when our children will start sleeping through every night properly? I know that is usually coupled with not getting up in the mornings, but I could cope with that for a little bit seeing as we are not rushing into schools in the mornings at the moment.

The destabilisation of Ukraine is getting worse. Sensing that things will come to a head more quickly now with pro-Russians wanting to push towards the Dnieper River, splitting the country down the middle. It still is infuriating to hear the "protection of Russian speakers" line being repeated in defence of their actions. A real Clintonism. Dmitry Rogozin said some pretty inflammatory remarks, but the one that probably is correct is that economic focus is heading towards the East, but I doubt without the participation of current Western powers. How the surrounding countries to Russia will then behave is probably an easy guess. No doubt with several trying to walk a tight rope until the US meets Russia head on; no one else can make a stand, save Germany perhaps. I think they've got enough economic clout to survive the cold shoulder. As for Kazakhstan, the country could be effectively split along the centre, but their economy is closely ties into the region and I would not be surprised if another devaluation of the Tenge were to ensue before the year is out.

Ray

 

Day 94

A trip to the HSBC was somewhat over shadowed by them not being open, so had to go the Khan Shatyr to make up for it. We also bought our water filter jug from there and needed some replacement cartridges, but they didn't sell any. So we bought a new water filter jug and 5 replacement cartridges and hoping that there will be more available in 6 months time. The adage of buying it all when you see it still rules. Naturally the children are also wanting to exercise this rule for all the toys they see.

Whilst the children were distracted with cheeseburgers, Ali and I got talking about home schooling in the UK. There still seems to be a bit of a stigma to families that home school, whereas most other places it is perfectly normal and there are funds to support it. I wondered if you can opt out of schools from your Council Tax bill and put the £1.50 per month saving towards a few pencils? The concept of home schooling is alien to me. My parents put me into schools and I did the same to my children when they were of age. Apart from it "being the done thing", what are the reasons for doing so? I don't have many fond memories of school, but perhaps I have forgotten some of the good and the bad. I do remember a lot of apprehension and desire to abscond. But did meet some excellent people who have remained good friends 25+ years later (Doug, Steve...). I guess for my parents, Sandy and I being in school allowed them to continue in the rat race of trying to make ends meet. And I didn't fair too badly when I put my mind to it.

Home schooling does seem like an attractive adventure and it is not time or country dependant. So apart from the social aspect of it, and Ali's desire to spend time in Costa or Starbucks with a good book and not being interrupted by children, it is difficult to know if we will put our children back into school when we return to the UK. We know the merits of the British education system. Yet Ali is a qualified teacher and the children (appear to) respond well to their new school, so we can establish a tailored curriculum on a 3-to-1 learning basis. I am sure I can do science experiments with them. So GCSEs should not be a problem. Rebekah wants to be a teacher, Matthias a pilot and Kyria, well Kyria is just happy making everyone laugh. So motivation for learning is there. I wonder whether Ali is ready to relinquish her dreams of relaxing Starbucks every weekday mornings?

Ray

Day 93

Happy Nauryz part 2. Still no real idea why they have a second celebration. One thought proffered was that a lot of people went away for holidays during the first Nauryz celebration so they wanted a second event to do the actual celebration. Maybe I could try this for Christmas...

Still there was lots of dancing, singing and some theatre. Children enjoyed it, which was a nice lead into their pyjama party, which also doubled as a babysitting service. Ali and I were able to nip around the block to an Italian restaurant, which served a really nice meal. The only problem was their credit card machine refused several of my cards, which I know are working, and we had limited cash. So a quick trip to wash up in the kitchens later and then Ali was ready to leave.

Had another headache trying to figure out the needlessly over complicated holiday forms, but I think we got there in the end. So it looks like we are coming back to the UK for July. Looking forward to catching up with as many family and friends that are available. Somewhat worried about driving a car after a 6 month break.

Ray

Day 92

Caught a student cheating in an exam. Removed the test papers of two students after they continued to talk, one whom proceeded to argue with the module coordinator whilst the exam continued around them. Faculty undermining faculty. And through it all I try to be conscientious and remain consistent to my ideals; expecting others to do the same is a different question. I sometime wonder why I am here, what changes I can really make. At present I am probably the 2nd year engineers least favourite member of staff, but that does not bother me. Like raising children, you have to follow through on your threats otherwise they have no respect for you. Dealing with students in Kazakhstan, exactly the same. But I guess that when it comes to my turn to lecture, they are unlikely to step out of line.

And just to add to the exasperating day, I found out that under the application of Kazakhstani finance law, when I seek reimbursement for the registration fees for a conference it is considered employment income and I have to pay tax on that claim. In my contract I am actually required to disseminate results at high level conferences. So in order to fulfil my contract I have to pay out of my own pocket! Could you imagine what that would be like in the UK?

Went out with Doug this evening for a few beers and was good to get to know him and his background. He's been here for 4 years, leaving his wife back in the States. Amazing strength of character and obviously a very solid marriage. Not sure what it is with knowing Dougs who happen to be Northward of 6 ft 6. No wonder I've got neck pains by just trying to look them in the face.

Ray

Day 91

The countdown continues towards weekly rather than daily updates. The days are getting longer and busier and the pace of our integration to life over here has been remarkably easy, despite the difficulties along the way. So in reporting back the comparisons between life here and there, I feel that we have experienced the majority of issues related to culture shock and tried to relay them as best as we could in the hope that it would be of assistance. If there is anyone wanting a fuller description of working at NU then you'd better contact me directly.

In the whole settling issue it is perhaps unfair to say that there was culture shock, given that we have been quite protected during our orientation and the first few months. Though still working hard to make friends for the children and finding Ali a coffee drinking buddy, I think we could potentially cope with coming back to the UK for a holiday and still return to Kazakhstan for work. I just need the correct incentives for the rest of my family though!

Feeling the strain of not being able to conduct any research and only influence what is happening back in Brighton with my PhD student(s). At least the ideas are developing and hopefully one day I'll be able to get back in the lab. I'm still challenged with the thought of where would I go if I could have free reign, in order to conduct my research. But these are only idle thoughts, which Les and Sue will be pleased to hear. Unless they wanted to go to America, Scandinavia or Australia? I'll throw in a Don Williams CD and a Spurs T-shirt...

For all you fans out there, Matthias is now into year 4 on the Harry Potter Wii game, helped by yours truly. So I must remember to pick up the rest of the saga and Lego Star Wars for the Wii when back in the UK. I think the girls must despair.

Ray

Day 90

I found out today that there are only a few people at NU that did not sign the new contracts, but one of them is already leaving at the end of their contract. So it will be interesting to see if the majority of us got it wrong and NU were going to pay the higher salary anyway, or whether NU will honor what they said and only give the top-up to those that signed. I can only imagine the ire that will ensue if it is the former, but given that this same person (who is leaving) also had provisions in their contract that have never been upheld, no-one can be really sure what will happen next.

Perhaps this is the biggest impact and starkest contrast with work in the UK. I am learning not to be overly fussed unless or until it directly affects my family's well being. It does feel like a roulette wheel has been spun and each candidate coming into NU ends up with a randomised package (salary and title) and if you accept, then you are given a number and slotted in to that position for 3 years. The fact that you could get away with the bare minimum, have no aspirations to better oneself or the university, is truly remarkable. But this is not me and I want to put this time to good use.


I met with an academic today who was viewing NU in consideration as to whether they will take the offered post. I tried to inform them of the broad scope of issues and possibilities, but I sensed that they were not really listening and their decision would be based on how much more salary and better post they can extract from the hierarchy. One useful thing they did say was that from their experience (being Russian) a contract is only honored as long as it is useful and are likely to change in order to reflect a new state of affairs. I retorted that if this was the case, then it is highly likely that the grand vision for NU will never be realised and no research or academic strategy could ever come to pass. I am not sure this person really cared, though I could be wrong.

Had a fantastic breakfast this morning, bringing my whole family into the NU cafiteria for pancakes, some form of sausage and eggs and all less than £3 for 5 of us. It didn't include coffee for Ali though, to her disappointment. The children and Ali stayed on for a short while, entertaining the locals and keeping my office colleagues in line. They all returned at the end of the day for more drinks and ice cream. Then finished off their lessons by drawing flags of the world, which are decorating my School entrance in preparation for Nauryz part 2 - apparently, Nauryz part 1 was insufficient. I still don't get it, but will hopefully find out later in the week.

Ray

 

I’ve been reading lately about various home educators and their opinions, ideas and ways of doing things.  The resources and curriculums available are becoming more of a minefield – those that are very structured and follow pretty much the same as regular schools and those who are more relaxed in their approach.  Today it struck me again how much children can learn when we don’t interfere.  In a 20 minute bus ride (it was a coach and we were the only ones travelling on it so more conducive to concentration than a public bus here!) I sat behind Rebekah and Matthias and listened to their conversation.  They read a book together with Rebekah helping Matthias with tricky words.  This then led to an in depth discussion on various other books they had read and a quick chat about the origin of the song that was playing on the radio.  Finally as we drive past a huge mosque, they had a good little discussion about its architecture and how they could compare it with a church building.  I was suitably impressed – I’m sure if I had tried to lead similar discussions with them round a table or in a classroom we would not have achieved nearly as much.

They then completed their regular maths work while Kyria played at a toddler group, they had an extended painting art lesson at friends house and finished off the day by copying a number of flags of the world that were suspended outside Ray’s department at work.  I’m not sure I would have achieved as much if I’d planned and marked extensively.  Funny how a day ‘off’ school can still be a learning day...

 

Ali



Day 89

Our first experience of going to the doctors in Kazakhstan. The kids have been feeling under the weather and some of the over the counter medicines are unavailable here. This was the one thing that concerned Ali the most, but her concerns were alleviated. The private clinic NU staff are signed up to is an international group offering high quality medical services in countries that don't normally have a high standard and/or provide a speedy understanding and translation. From what I know, Kazakhstan medical facilities are actually quite good and a number of people we've met have had their children born here. Anyway, the doctor was thorough and I have to go for an MRI scan sometime in the next few weeks. Nothing of concern, but just to eliminate possible causes for searing pain I experience every few months. It's probably me forgetting not to use a hammer with cotton wool ear buds.

The children are all fine and we are feeling more relaxed about the living here. It would be good to draw some comparisons between here and the UK, but we never had private medical care in the UK. The reform in the UK health system has been a positive one for the most part. I remember back to my youth and you could be expected to wait up to 2 weeks for a medical appointment. Nowadays in the UK it is the same day. Though service is quick and diagnoses somewhat rushed at times. Still, it is reassuring to have access to quality medical services in an instance. Of course this is tempered with numerous cases where there have been failings in the UK, and where patients and their families can be treated abominably. But let's face it, the general situation could be a lot worse.

Ray

Day 88

The sun was shining, the wind not too cold. It was a good day. I am of course trying to ignore the final score for West Ham vs. Liverpool. Steve Whitington - I told you so!

A lazy start followed by trying to remember how to roller blade. Went to the Rixos hotel for brunch, which was incredible. Today the menu was Italian, apparently the best of the pick, and we were not disappointed. Every little thing that we missed about fine Italian food was there. I think for me it was the hard cheeses, which are phenomenally expensive in Astana. The meal may have been a little pricey for adults, but children under 8 go for free and they have a little children's corner. Was great to see so many families from around Astana. I did get a little distracted when one table brought cheeseburgers for their children.

Birds in the hotel lobby

Think Rebekah over did the desserts and she felt sick. Matthias has not been feeling well for a few days, so Ali took the children back to the apartment and I went onto the Radisson, guitar in hand. Had a fantastic worship session with Nathan, but I was also feeling under the weather - not food linked I should add! - so my singing voice was not great.

Feeling a bit calmer in preparation of signing the contract tomorrow morning. I feel I have done all I can to lodge my concerns, which have been duly noted and ignored. So now I try to make the right decision. Ali has spent the last few hours organising purchases on the home schooling budget. It does seem ridiculous to have about £1,000 per child (over 2 years old) to spend on books each year. But they have made the funds available, so we need to try and maximise the situation to benefit the children.

And in support of Ali's hard work, I watched Hotel Transylvannia. I honestly did buy it for the children. Only, they were all in bed. Asleep. Er, at least now I know it is not too scary for them.

Ray

Day 87

Weekend, glorious weekend. It brought about our usual trip out into the city, with a bus ride in the sun shine, although the wind still blows cold and overnight temperature drops below freezing. There was a man who was reading over Matthias' shoulder all the way to the Mega store. Hope he liked Horrid Henry whom ever he was.

Both Matthias and I were very excited to see a LEGO Millenium Falcon. So will keep an eye out to see if it enters the half price sale in a few months time. Perhaps wishful thinking. Frozen toys are a big hit with Rebekah and Kyria. They can practise saving up their pocket money.

So it looks like we will be moving at some point, but still awaiting confirmation of approval. Not looking forward to having to pack everything yet again, but at least we are not moving that far. Should be moving vertically, 6 floors up.

Trying to plan holidays does not appear to be much fun. Because we have not tried to book holiday time at NU before and I am (should be) going to South Korea for a conference at the beginning of July and there are complicated rules that would prevent me from flying from Korea to UK to start my holiday and the number of holiday days I've accrued, the list goes on, but hoping to make it to the UK for mid-July for me. End of June for Ali and the kids. We're thinking that we should buy another car and keep it in the UK somewhere safe, so that we do not have to pay high rental prices everytime we come back home. Trouble is, not sure where we could keep a car tucked away.

Anyway, looking forward to the Summer break. Looks like there will be no official Easter celebration here (unsurprisingly), but that will not deter us from East egg hunts - albeit without the Easter Eggs.

My colleague Sean finally got out on his bike for a few hours this morning and provided me with a couple of photos. The landscape doesn't change much once you leave the city limits. Nevertheless, I am excited about getting a bike here. Running up and down the stairs is becoming rather tedious.

Ray

 

Day 86

Well today was deadline day. After pushing for more information I finally got some from HR. There were assurances given that the old contract benefits would be honored, but in discussing with those that have been here longer, it seems the general feeling is that contract honoring is not guaranteed. I tried to discuss this with my Dean, I said my peace, but there is another set of problems recently developed. In this case it does not affect me. Ali and I have made our choice, but we were able to take the weekend to decide. What amazed me more, though it should not have done, was that in talking calmly and rationally to the HR people and understanding that they are also under pressure and we do appreciate what they are going through, one of them said thank you for understanding, but I was one of the very few members of staff who do. These are contentious issues, but I can only imagine the ire that some staff have vented towards HR. This is understandable but it is also unhelpful. Some members of staff were only told late last night that they had to sign today, making it very difficult to communicate with partners back home.

The falling marble tile story is now circulated throughout the whole of NU. Curiously it hasn't been embellished, the general size of the piece of tile hasn't grown out of proportion. It's almost a shame fo rthe sake of turning legend.

We also went for a viewing of another apartment within Block 38. It would have been similar to the one we were supposed to have had in Block 39 (which is not online yet). So slightly bigger space, better laid out. The kitchen is the same size, but by having a table brought in, it does not impact the rest of the available living area space. So we are hopeful this would be a useful trade up. It also provides a better distribution of space amongst the bedrooms and the en suite also has a bath rather than a shower.

Was contacted by our letting agents today. Our tenants found ants in the bedroom (1st floor). Thankfully are contract is proactive and the job was sorted out straight away, so hopefully keeping the tenants happy.

The children had a great time entertaining friends. I also managed to solve the current level Matthias was stuck on for Harry Potter on the Wii. So I am now officially a super cool Dad. I wont tell him I had to look it up on the internet!

I am awaiting confirmation from Planet X that my bike has been built and dispatched. My work colleague is keen to have a cycling buddy. Or it could be a shield to save himself from the drivers... well he's heading out solo for the next few weeks, so we should see how safe the roads are.

Ray

Day 85

Heading towards the end of a long week, full of broken sleep and extreme tiredness. Although was speaking with a colleague at NU who had sent me an email at 5am. I asked him if he ever slept and he said yes, between 9pm and midnight. 3 hours just isn't enough surely.

So just when you think you are making reasonable headway, something else takes a swipe. I have to say that Ali and I are in a real bind as to what to do. In order to obtain a restored salary we have to agree to a new social policy, which includes undesirable aspects that are troublesome. In doesn't provide the protection against the university's spin-out services company and restricts many other freedoms. We have been told to sign by end of tomorrow or we do not get the salary restoration. And they cannot guarantee that this offer will be in place after tomorrow. Given that the salary adjustment was originally conveyed without any mention of conditions, it was a source of ire and angst among many whom have now resigned to their fate.

I am incensed. I believe this is not the way to behave towards members of staff whether foreign or national, but this is falling on deaf ears. Deep down it feels like I have to sign because I doubt the university will honour the old contract anyway and then they save the money they would have given to me. They win. If I sign it, then it feels that I am agreeing to their terms and have given in and I am bound for the rest of my stay under the boot. They win.

The only upshot is their reputation and how they want the world to see it.

I apologise if you find talk about money offensive or embarrassing. There are practicalities to the financial situation, but life is more than money. Even if I do give in and accept the changes, the restored salary and new contract is still a net loss on what I was able to offer my family back in October when we had to make the hard choice as to coming to Kazakhstan. I feel I have let Ali down and my children too. I have to make a decision in the next 24 hours with no advice available.

In spite of this frustration, there are still good things about Kazakhstan. For example, I went out with a colleague to a restaurant where they served some of the best peppered steak I have ever had. So must find a babysitter and take Ali for a night out.

Was excited to come home to see a giant peach and lots of drawings from our children inspired by Roald Dahl. Ali and the children are going great with home schooling. A friend at work had commented on how amazing it was to see my children come into the work office with confidence, able to talk to adults and show consideration. He said it was a good indiciation of the hard work that I put in with them and that my input was a mere fraction of Ali's effort. It's not that I forget, but nice to be reminded how much a blessing my children are. And Ali too.

Ray

Day 84

The good news of the week is that a new family with children have moved into our building. Two girls from the Czech Republic who speak some English & like princess dresses & babies have become a big hit amongst our children.

We have started school afresh after a week off and I'm pleased to say we're all enjoying home education most of the time. It's amazing how much we can get done in one morning, leaving our afternoons free to play, relax, exercise or just enjoy having free time for once!

Ali

A long tiring day, but actually getting things done. The last remaining obstacle is an individual who wont respond to emails, but is in charge of some important information. I am not into politics or playing games (except with my children... and the camping trips... and the role play weekends) so it is difficult to know how I should deal with this person. Of course it should be graciously. And it will be graciously. I still need to know why though. I am a scientist after all and want to know these things. But this is outside the realm of science. The human body, in spite if its complexity, cannot be totally accounted for in terms of methodological naturalism. So I find it fascinating as to what makes people tick, the reason for their actions and words. But this is also played against a time factor and I really need to get on and finish this bit.

We have been told that our accommodation concerns have been addressed and approved by the most senior person in the university. Not only that but I bumped into the Vice President of the University today who expressed her remorse at the situation of the falling piece of marble tile, expressing genuine concern for the safety of the children. I think it does help to see such emotion and it does help bridge the lower ranks to the top ranks, the foreigners to the locals. Naturally there are those that feel further away and see a greater divide and those that are closer and already knew there was no actual division. So it is a personal reflection and development along my path.

Ray

Day 83

Family suitably excited heading towards bed. My fault for providing the chocolate, but I think tonight's viewing was a big hit. Managed to keep Frozen 3D a secret for a while. Thanks to Kevin and also Lina and Sean for providing extra pairs of 3D specs. It was fascinating to hear the children (Kyria included) sing the songs, which I presume they only learnt through Youtube clips. Progressing the Family Von Whitbys towards our big debut.

Received an email from the Vice President of the University today assuring me that the marble tile incident is being taken seriously, which is a relief. I also heard discussions about certain contract developments are also progressing, so it makes me hopeful that such changes will not proceed in similar fashion in the future and hopefully ensures some stability. Some of the issues are also being dealt with, which just leaves the wild dogs.

Survived giving a 2 hour lecture on safety. Had 100 students in the first class. Had to throw one of them out for talking, despite repeated warnings. These second years are highly disruptive if you let them. Then only 50 turned up for the second half. But there were 20 or so that engaged with the topic. Contrasting how serious the Kazakhstanis take the issue of safety compared to the UK and USA is causing some concern. I took them through the different kinds of accidents that can exist within engineering (especially with chemicals) and despite the horrors, it feels like these students only reckon it will happen to someone else. But if the message sinks into just a few, perhaps those few will go on and effect change in the correct way.

Ray